1. He must love God. He mustn’t be perfect. I’m not, and don’t want to burden a perfect Christian with imperfect me. But he must love God, have a heart for God and desire to serve God.
2. He must have a sense of humour, and be able to laugh at himself, especially his mistakes.
3. He must make me feel like the only option, not one of the many options.
4. He must be a servant, a man willing to give of himself to better others, including people he will never meet