Change

Before last week, if you had asked me about change, I would say that I am very open to change, and have no compulsions shifting with the tide. I am not talking about the change that was touted in Nigeria a few years back, and in fact, if you mention change in several locations now, …

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What are your concerns?

I woke up this morning, a clear, distinct voice asking me, ‘what are your concerns?’ I pulled up, was ready to answer my Papa, then shut up. Then I paused, tried again to list my concerns. And yet, had to keep quiet. Because, at the end of the day, there were none. There are things …

Couple Things

I miss ‘couple things’. Couple things like leaning my head on my partner’s shoulder; like reaching out randomly and placing my hand on my partner’s shoulder/lap; or my partner reaching out to place a hand on me at night to check that I am okay. Or a phone call, just because. Date Nights. Time in …

Life

I lived. This 2018, I lived. ♠ On Wealth I built a community, especially in the second half. Oh, yes I did. I grew richer in friends, count and quality. They were life lines. Me rooting for them and them for me. My female community grew. Same as my male community. Finances were very topsy-turvy …

Re-raveling

I shaved today. After the tests showed in July I had lumps, I had stopped shaving. Second tests in October showed I had the lumps under both armpits. Again, benign, thankfully. But I had just not gotten around to shaving. - I am ready again to clean up my room. I had been busy, but …

chasm

I have cried a significant bit in the last 2 hours. It is 1.09am, and I can't sleep, even though I am at work later today, and the last two days have not been exactly laid-back days. I trust God & have absolute confidence in how He is working things out for me. But I …

One Year On

By the time i returned from East Africa in late November 2017, I knew something was different. Over the past month, I had become very pale at the end of every day, got tired very easily, had this horrible pain on the left side of my stomach that required me to comfortably sleep at night …