Living, But On Hold

I tweeted a few days back that while it is important to pay bills, it is essential that we do not spend our time strictly doing things directed to paying the bills. It is important to take some time for ourselves to just be, and to just clown around. I saw this tweet this morning, …

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The Disservice We Do Them

It was another International Women’s Day, and for the first time, the office had organized a breakfast fellowship to celebrate women. As the conversation got on, it soon turned out to be another sisters’ fellowship meeting where the conversation was centered around women who are married, and how they managed juggling their homes and kids. …

Change

Before last week, if you had asked me about change, I would say that I am very open to change, and have no compulsions shifting with the tide. I am not talking about the change that was touted in Nigeria a few years back, and in fact, if you mention change in several locations now, …

Couple Things

I miss ‘couple things’. Couple things like leaning my head on my partner’s shoulder; like reaching out randomly and placing my hand on my partner’s shoulder/lap; or my partner reaching out to place a hand on me at night to check that I am okay. Or a phone call, just because. Date Nights. Time in …

Life

I lived. This 2018, I lived. ♠ On Wealth I built a community, especially in the second half. Oh, yes I did. I grew richer in friends, count and quality. They were life lines. Me rooting for them and them for me. My female community grew. Same as my male community. Finances were very topsy-turvy …

Re-raveling

I shaved today. After the tests showed in July I had lumps, I had stopped shaving. Second tests in October showed I had the lumps under both armpits. Again, benign, thankfully. But I had just not gotten around to shaving. - I am ready again to clean up my room. I had been busy, but …