First answer: Totally! How I mean is, the kind of person that you are translates into how often you date and eventually, the kind of love life that you have. However, life is not in 'absolutes'. Despite being a warm person, life does throw its challenges: you may have opened your heart totally, and the …
Day 5: #TheSW30 Challenge continues
...That I have no worries. They believe I do not have financial burdens, am not responsible for anyone and pretty much do as I please. I won't go into details of who I am responsible for, or where I am committed. Not here. If you are in my personal space, you will know. A friend/colleague …
Day 4. #TheSW30 Challenge
I have really, really, really tried to find an answer to this. It is not a question I had considered before. Maybe because I know life is in stages. Sometimes you are ahead, sometimes behind. Everyone has their race to run. It neither helps me in anyway nor make senses for me to compare myself with …
DAY 3 of #TheSW30 Blogging Challenge
Huh. I honestly can't think of any. Someone may say 'being able to up and run whenever I want to'. Or 'doing things how and when I want to'. If I really was inspired to write something on this question, I may pull something out from there. But mehn, I don't want any of that …
DAY 2: #TheSW30 Blogging Challenge
I typed out this post. And deleted it in error. It took a few days to get back in the writing groove... I hope I am as detailed in this re-write. Here goes: Church. I've grown up through my adult life around Christian fellowships: Anglican Students Fellowship; Nigerian Christian Corpers Fellowship; Drama Unit of my home church, …
DAY 1: #TheSW30
I'll quickly admit that this question is one of the tough questions for me in the #TheSW30 challenge. Before, I would have said,” I don't rush into dating". I've had a few companions in past years, and while I was with them, I gave them my all. I believe very strongly in healing, becoming a …
THE #TheSW30 30-Day Blogging Challenge
The past few days have been particularly tough for me. One of the first comments I got from someone who knew this blog is about “ME” asked that I changed my writing style to third-person. I thought, and thought about it, then decided not to. A lot of what I share – my successes and …
No rest for Him
I had a dream two nights ago. In the dream, I was handed a slim Bible. Somehow, I knew it was an NIV version I had been given. You know how dreams can be? That knowing without anyone saying anything to you? Events after the handover were not distinct, but when I woke up, I …
CELEBRATING MAAMI
I was working from outside my office on Thursday August 6, 2015. While waiting for ‘the boss’, I decided to call my mum. We spoke briefly. She confirmed she would go to see my grandma (her mum), as was her usual custom on Thursday mornings. Grandma. We called her Maami. Or Granny. I remember my …
My Christmas List
Hello Santa, I realize that you are a very busy man. Working without relenting through out the year is no easy task. Because you are quite busy, I just thought that I could make it a bit easier for you by letting you know what I'd like for Christmas. Then you could focus your energy …
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